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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 04:17

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What I need from you?

My parents force me (15yo atheist) to go to church, and there’s this thing called Small Sundays where we discuss the Bible in groups, there are questions asked about the Bible. What am I supposed to do when they ask?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What do you respect the most about Elon Musk?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Does not procrastinate.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Its year 2041, and president Hunter Biden has ordered every republican who sweared at him to be arrested and shot. I am on my way to the death row listening to the cheer of the Liberal mob chanting death death death. How can I escape?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

What is your review of The Office (U.S. TV series)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What can anal toys bring to straight men?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Why would Trump make conspiracy claims that Haitians are eating pets in Ohio?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I get a girlfriend? I am 26.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How could NASA possibly land on the moon when it's impossible to reach the moon through the Earth's dome? Why are they making up such an obvious lie?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Delta Force selection is originally based on SAS selection, so why is there no brutal jungle phase for Delta Force? It seems like it's based only on the Brecon Beacons section.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.